Talking to women might come easy for some, but one thing all men can agree on is how tough it is to always say the right thing! One minute your lady is asking you what you think of her hair, and before you know it, you’re in the doghouse.
Whether you’re single and ready to call the QuestChat chat line, or you’ve already found a great gal, here are some tips to keep the conversation with a lady going smoothly.
Hair colour comments, thoughts on her clothes, and any kind of remark on her makeup should be avoided at all costs. Telling her you loved her hair blonde, moments after she’s dyed it dark brown, isn’t going to do you any favours. Saying you prefer a more natural makeup look while she applies her third coat of mascara probably isn’t a great move either. Remember, women are often already hard on themselves about what they look like and how they’re perceived, last thing they need is their man adding to the negativity.
If you’re on a chat line then avoiding clothes or hair comments is easy, but even on the phone you can end up saying the wrong thing. Keep it simple and stay away from talking about how many women you’ve been with (no chick thinks that’s sexy), or how great your ex-girlfriend was at x, y, z. If you’re trying to woo someone new then centre the conversation around the present, and on her.
Chatting with women doesn’t have to be complicated. As long as you think about what you say before you say it, chances are you’ll win her over! Words have power and leave a lasting impression so it’s super important to choose them carefully.
And if she asks you if she looks fat/tired/old, the answer is always no. Always.
Have you ever said something wrong, or had something said to you that you wish hadn’t happened? Let us know in a comment below!