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High PRODUCTion Value

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Are you a product of products?

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about products and what make people buy things and worse; buy INTO the advertising around them. I admit there are some products i use that i cannot do without and i would have no way of replicating them at home. Coconut oil, i use tons of and if it wasn’t made for me then i would have no idea how to make it.

There is another product I couldn’t live without; chat rooms! I admit, I am a user of dating sites and chat rooms. I love talking to people and meeting them and I’ve had some good LTRs too, so that’s not a product I intend to give up, nor should I. It makes me happy!  When you are in chat rooms and seeking local singles, ask others what products they can’t live without?

But what about products that clearly we can? When you think about it, a product is something that has been manufactured from raw materials. Myself I am a big buyer of plain old raw materials. I don’t like processed and packaged things and there is a reason; most of this stuff is blatantly garbage. Good things stripped down to their essentials and then packed with filler and harmful chemicals, then packed into pretty packaging and sold via brainwashing manipulative advertising campaigns to, well…us.

Frankly we should be embarrassed to be so easily manipulated. Milk is a prime example of this. The notion of taking the milk of another species, torturing her, stealing her children, locking her in a tiny cage, all so we can drink her milk is bizarre, unhealthy, in fact it’s evil. Yet, we continue to buy it because billions of advertising dollars, product placement in movies and TV shows and even uneducated in the proper nutrition pediatricians have people sold on this sad and scary idea.

Cereal is another thing that is pure profit for companies and has absolutely no nutritional value whatsoever.  A “food” that has to have vitamins and minerals actually inserted into it to make it have any food value at all. Yet if you cooked up a bowl of steel cut oats, or barley or brown rice etc. this would be actual food and have a food value. Or what about things we just don’t need at all but are advertised into thinking we do? Fidget spinners, lash lengthening potions, lip ‘puffifers’ etc. what do we need them for?

A lot of this is just cooked up in advertising agencies just to create a market for something there really shouldn’t be a market for! All I am saying is; it’s time for us as a species to start thinking for ourselves and not walk placidly into stores and shovel over our hard earned money just to make advertisers and the companies they represent happy.

We are better than that! A key component of a happy life is being an independent thinker, learning and questioning what we do and how we can do it better.

Live free. Think for yourself. Love life!

So..when you gonna learn about Samhain?

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What the Samhain?


Ever wonder where Halloween comes from? Before the silly costumes and collection of tooth rotting treats, there was an ancient and powerful celebration.  Samhain (pronounced sow-en) was celebrated on October 31st and was believed to be the night the dead returned to the earth. Presumably to party down with the still living loved ones they left behind! Read More

Beyond bereft

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Dealing with loss

“Dogs’ lives are too short. Their only fault, really.”

Agnes Sligh Turnbull


My friends, this is a hard one to write. I have debated whether to share it with you but I lost a beloved family member this week. I am beyond bereft. My oldest boy Ursus, was 12 years old and I had rescued him when he was just 6 weeks old. He was a beautiful black lab mix and the joy and soul of my life.

It is even hard to write these words. Sadly it is even difficult to tell people because so many people seem to value human animals over non-human animals and I don’t perceive a difference. Read More

Moody Blue Is That You?

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Are you a ‘moody’, ‘grumpus’, ‘sad-sack’ or ‘gloomy gus’? Do you think I am talking about some new dwarves that could possibly be the stars of the movie of your life? OK, maybe just the extras, but admit it, we all get down, blue, under the weather, down-in-the-dumps or whatever euphemism for mild depression you want to use. What makes us behave this way? It can be frustrating. Read More

Pick a pretty posey

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What is your favourite flower? Did you know that flowers have meanings and messages and it used to be quite common to send flowers to convey a specific message? I think that is very romantic! In fact one could even insult someone or even break up with them using flowers as your medium of choice. When in chat rooms seeking local singles, it’s a very interesting conversation starter. Find out who is compatible with you by their favourite flower or their birth month flower. Just like your astrological sign, your birth month also has a flower. So let’s delve a bit into the interesting world of flowers and see what it reveals about you and your potential loves! Read More

Make Friends Not Foes of Family

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Family matters
Often in a relationship, whether casual dating, serious, heading for long-term or even just lust buddies, we are faced with the dreaded; meeting the family or friends. It’s inevitable. Sometimes you can just b out together and run into someone. It’s nerve-wracking and hard to prepare for. When seeking local singles on chat lines it’s an interesting subject to ask others about too. So here are some tips on dealing with the stresses and inevitable judgments of meeting his or her significant others in their lives; Read More

Wake up sleepy head

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…Get up, get outta bed!

Live, love, laugh and be happy!


Are you getting enough sleep? Or maybe you are getting too much? Yes, that’s a thing. According to a recent study too much sleep has a risk of diabetes, heart disease and stroke. Sleeping too much can be a sign of a bigger problem, like depression or loneliness. When you are in the chat room seeking local singles, an interesting topic of conversation could be all about sleep patterns. Why do we sleep anyway? We need to give our bodies and minds a chance to recuperate from our daily lives, but too often we use sleep as a sort of self-medication or escape from problems we face in the wakened world. Read More

Corset turn you on? Of course it does!

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Get it?

All kidding aside, corsets have been around a long time and are considered by many cultures to be both erotic and also a practical piece of underwear. Some also believe it’s is a restrictive and uncomfortable way of controlling women. Did you know there was a time when even infants were loosely corseted to begin their  corset-wearing career? When looking online for local singles, consider talking about underwear and sexy things that you find attractive or enjoy wearing.

For the not so faint of heart, let’s take a closer look at the history of; the Corset!

Some loathe and despise, others salivate and fantasize but almost everyone has an opinion of the corset. Corset date as far back as 1600 BC, wow that’s a lot of sweating uncomfortable women…and men for other reasons! Read More

Losing my religion

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Does your religion matter more than love? Some people will leave behind everything, even a kingdom for love. Others simply will not even consider a person if they are not the same religion. How much does it matter in the long run? Would you change your belief system for the love of your life? Read More