Don’t get caught in an embarrassing “is he or isn’t he into me” scenario again! If you truly want to know whether or not that crush is flirting with you, you’ve got to learn to read the signs.
When he finds a way to touch you, you can pretty much take this as a massive sign – the guy is flirting! If you really aren’t sure on his intentions just look for an arm around the shoulder, him grabbing your hand, long hugs, or even a leg brushed up against yours as you sit together. Most men will show you how they feel before they make the move in telling you, so keep an eye out for these subtle signs.
Poking light fun at each other or getting a sarcastic banter going are both major flirting techniques. Think back to the days of childhood when little boys would push you or pull your hair (this was usually their crazy way of showing they had a crush), now that we’re older they use their words. Finally.
You want to know how to tell if a guy is flirting with you? Take a look at his body language. If he’s got an open chest pointed towards you (and a pelvis too) these are both huge tells – he’s definitely got a thing you. The stance of a man says a lot about his feelings as well! When he puts his hands on his hips while standing with his feet set apart it’s because he’s trying to look strong and powerful in front of you. The hands on the hips also indicate that he wants to draw your attention that… ahem, area.
Looking you in the eye when you’re speaking, or trying to catch your eye from across a room are obvious flirts. He’s clearly looking to make a deeper connection with you and one of the easiest ways to do just that is through eye contact. Eyes are the windows to the soul girlfriend; so if you like the dude, let him in!